In Humanistic Judaism, life ceremonies are designed specifically to meet the very human needs of those participating in the ceremony. Well-trained leaders will listen carefully to what the individuals and families need and work with them to develop a ceremony that meets those needs, while being consistent with the values and philosophy of Humanistic Judaism.
Most celebrations may, but need not, be conducted by a rabbi or an ordained ceremonial leader (madrikh/a). Please contact SHJ Rabbi Miriam Jerris for assistance with your life cycle needs, or to help you find an officiant. There are also many resources in the SHJ Store Life Cycle section with information about creating Humanistic Jewish ceremonies to mark life cycle events.